Recently one of my grandsons was bullied in school. It was not a one time event. The bully had been bullying him from the start of school. My grandson had an open dialog at home about it and seemed to be working through his personal issues of being treated poorly. He was enjoying going to public school instead of homeschooling and wanted to continue.
The bully then knocked him to the floor and was beating on him in class. The teacher had to pull the bully off of him and sent them to the office. Somehow the bully took one of my grandsons notebooks with violent drawings and actually taunted him that now he would be in more trouble than the bully.
My grandson has been expelled until 7th grade or he completes an in patient therapy program. My daughter walked through all the steps ordered by the principal. Mental Health professionals told her that he did not do anything that warrants in patient treatment.
While walking through all of this and having other parents and counselors reach out to her begging her to fight because they had all been bullied out of the school as well she had to put this fight on hold to deal with another flaming arrow Satan had pointed at their family. I wanted to pick up this fight and run but have learned that is not as helpful to my children as it feels like it is to me.
This school has now expelled another student for the pictures he made and we realize that we have to keep fighting. We have to bring change to this school district. My daughter has returned to homeschooling with an amazing program that they will continue and not put my grandsons back into this school- but we can’t let others be bullied out!
As we’ve begun sending letters out to the school board and now have sent letters to the State Board of Education concerning the poor bullying training in this district a local newspaper wrote a story and included a portion of what my daughter wrote: “You got it wrong today. You got it wrong when overnight a suspension turned into expelling a student – a student who was pantsed, shoved into a wall, and shoved over/into his desk. You sent home the victim – the kid being picked on.”
Thankfully the community has stepped forward. Enough of them read this story and want to help create the change! They are setting up meetings and discussing programs, fundraising and such! It is such a relief! In this violent angry world we live in- we must address bullying from all angles! Yes these pictures are possible warning signs- but why are the kids drawing these pictures? They are being bullied- if we don’t help the bullies have empathy for other, help the bystanders find their voice and strengthen the victims we are not going to stop horrible violent acts from manifesting!
Be the change you want to see in the world! Recognize wrongs and stand for the silent! Do not allow injustice to prevail!
My daughters blog is: https://perceptionsby1.com/
When this disrespectful action began a few years ago I was offended and shared posts stating how wrong others felt this was. I was wearing my blinders and felt like the money these men make to ‘play’ a game shouldn’t allow them to show disrespect to the soldiers who are serving or the veterans that have served.
My husband and I went for a bike ride today so we missed all the commentary on today’s NFL kneeling. When we arrived home I found some posts about our home team, The Denver Bronco’s, kneeling and I began to get upset about it. I then reminded myself I did research the reasons that some of these players were doing this last year and found some common ground I have with them.
I was arrested and convicted of a felony 2 + decades ago. It was a life changing event in my life, my marriage and our family. For years I refused to recite the Pledge of Allegiance. I no longer believed in it. I’ve walked through an experience that proved to me that we no longer have ‘Justice for All’ If you have a big enough bank account you can get justice. Our entire justice system is fueled by the drive for money. From fines and fees to hiring lawyers. We are told our tax dollars build and fund jails. When you are incarcerated you are told you have to pay fines and fees for your incarceration. They are double dipping from the taxpayers and the inmates- but you can’t get anyone to listen to you. The taxpayers say the inmates should pay. They can’t hear that both are paying.
My brother served in Viet Nam. My father served in the Korean Conflict. I have many friends whose kids are serving today. I have nephews and cousins serving. I never blamed any of these people when I no longer believed in Justice for All. I don’t think our NFL players are blaming the soldiers either. While in some ways I think it wrong for ‘entertainers’ to shove their personal opinions into our homes, I also feel it will take a GIANT to quash this justice system that has gone awry.
I agree with my fellow citizens that President Trump was wrong to call names. While he may want a different approach from NFL players, calling names is not going to fix the problem as we saw today.
While I don’t think our justice system is fair- I also am not shooting myself in the foot to call attention to it. I had to make my own peace with this flawed system. I compared our system to several others around the world. I would not want to walk through any other justice system on this planet. So I decided to make what changes I could. I could change my attitude. I could change my actions. I can vote. I can research the candidates, judges, ballot measures and I can vote with purpose. This is the way I chose to make changes in a system I do not like or trust. I also believe my way is slower than a snail in making a difference, so possibly these overpaid game players will bring a change needed, this is overdue.
Today was Day 1 of 95 days without the main bridge that delivers commuters across the Colorado River and the Rio Grande Railroad tracks to and from Aspen and all towns in between!
There has been at least one YEAR of heavy advertising preparing us for today. I’ve seen it in the local newspapers, heard in on the Radio Stations and it has been on all of my social media feeds. I recognize that since my occupation is DRIVING, I tend to stay informed about road closures and such. It would seem to me that as a commuter you would stay informed too- but apparently not!
I witnessed people driving OVER the white plastic mounted lane dividers making the right lane of Interstate 70 an exit only lane. People just decided they didn’t care and drove over them. I saw driver after driver STOP and ask the flaggers for directions of how to get where they wanted to go. Excuse me- why do the rest of us have to wait for you? The flaggers are there to keep everyone moving in an orderly fashion- NOT for your personal map service.
I may sound a bit agitated and I apologize. I knew it would make my day longer and harder. I just didn’t expect to see the level of selfishness from drivers who somehow missed the MANY MEMOS that were put out about this detour. It will improve- we are like sheep and once we learn our ‘NEW’ route it will go quicker.
I appreciate that RFTA is offering FREE bus services from Parachute to Glenwood during this time. I urge anyone who can to please utilize this amazing service. I know using a bus takes a little more time, but it does remove more cars from the road and it gives you the opportunity to relax to and from work. I know, I know- what gives me the right to ask you to take the bus and not do it myself? I am a courier. What that means is that I am carpooling- with packages instead of passengers. Most days I am carrying packages from 15 or more different clients. I pick up and drop off all the way to Aspen and all the way back down from Aspen.
By sending your packages with me or calling and having me run your errands you are reducing the amount of cars trying to make it through this detour! We take most packages for only $13.00. My morning commute took 1 hr 45 minutes to get from Canyon Creek to McDonald’s. I believe everyone’s time is worth more than $13 for nearly 2 hours ?!?! By having multiple packages going to and from is how we keep our prices low. Consider saving yourself some time and money!
And in the meantime- STOP TRYING TO TALK TO THE FLAGGERS! Here is the official explanation of what a flagger is doing:
Flaggers are the people on construction sites who control traffic. They are the men and women along roads and highways who help traffic keep flowing through a construction zone, despite a shutdown of lanes. Flaggers often work in teams, with each person controlling the flow of traffic in a certain direction. (NOTICE IT DOES NOT SAY GIVE DIRECTIONS TO EACH DRIVER THAT REFUSED TO LOOK INTO THE ROAD CLOSURE).